Just be yourself! We hear it everywhere, don't we? Yet what do we actually know about being ourselves? If we let consumerism decide for us, we'd need to spend a ton of cash before we accessed this inner sense of self-ness everyone's talking about. If we are guided by religion or any kind of spirituality of belief system, we'll cut off from the western way of life to retire into an ascetic existence and find our self-ness via denial of the material world. It seems to me no one has the answer, and more than ever people are pondering how one can be true to oneself. It's no use trying to dissociate ourselves from the symbolic illusions entwined i